You withdraw emotionally when you see he’s not actually fully in.
He’s not necessarily a bad man, but he just hasn’t arrived emotionally.
They are constantly on guard for something to go wrong and checking a dating site for the guy they are dating is part of their ritual. When a man is committed to you he is committed to contributing to your happiness as well.
If this is you, stop right here and please check out the Journey Inward and start doing some inner work. You won’t likely find him still active on a dating site.
Just because he’s online doesn’t mean he’s dating anyone else. xo Sandy What’s the nice way to say- so if you like me (only) so much, what are you doing on our time?
But you do need to be sure you’re on the same page in order for you to feel valued.
He did it on his own and problem was resolved with no drama. you need to seriously consider if it’s time to walk away from the relationship: If a man is still active on a dating site, his options are open and you options should remain open as well. Listen to these two classes to really deal with this the Goddessy Way: “How To be High Value And Easy To Lose And How It Can Inspire Men To Step Up” and “How To Manage Your Emotional Investment When He’s Been Stepping Up But Hasn’t Claimed You.” Even when he has claimed you verbally, your job to observe never stops.
I personally still get emails from Match saying I have messages or so and so winked and I haven’t logged onto that site in over two years.
I am not on a dating site, even though it appears I am. So before your analyzing mind goes into overdrive, make sure that he is actually active and doesn’t just have some dormant profile up there.
The first thing here for you to consider before you start to analyze this to death is what made you check the dating site in the first place?
In most cases it’s our gut that gives us a feeling that something may be off. In other cases, there are some women that just don’t trust a man in general.