Although prone to being overprotective, “givers” are very affectionate parents who want to see their children well-adjusted.
Their own extravert nature may cause them to push their child into social activities such as play dates, sports, or after-school programs from a young age.
The chameleon-like ability can be a wonderful tool when used to speak to a crowd of people, but even without the use of this ability the “giver” is a very charismatic and passionate speaker who has the ability to mesmerize others.
“Givers” would do well in a leadership role such as a teacher, motivational speaker, or even a politician. They have a welcoming nature that makes them very approachable and trustworthy.
ENFJ relationships are often full of inspiration, affection, and fun.
This type of personality is more likely to overlook whether social actions are right or wrong because they become so consumed with social normalcies and expectations and are driven by the desire to be accepted by others.
Broaching the subject of overprotection/smothering will need to be done delicately and in a manner that lets the ENFJ know that he or she isn’t a bad person or companion – just a little overzealous in the Care Department.
ENFJs will try to fulfil their role as a partner/spouse/parent to the best of their ability and generally make good parents.
ENFJ individuals are outgoing and will never cease to inspire and entertain a partner.
As this type of personality thrives in a social atmosphere, “givers” are happiest with individuals who are comfortable having a large social circle and the societal responsibilities that can be entailed in this type of lifestyle.