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I went on as many dates with men in their mid-forties or above as I could arrange.

Of course, the fat, balding ones still went into the delete bin, but many were perfectly dateable.

A French man invited me to dinner and offered to give me £500 for my time.

My dates began offering gifts – and monthly cash allowances – to see them on a more regular basis.

At first I was horrified, and deleted such messages which filled my inbox. But then I learnt that one of my dates – a handsome 45-year-old energy trader – paid all the other girls he went out with for the evening.